Do you want to have more
friends?? Of course, you will answer yes. But the question is how? It so
simple! I want to share with you what I’ve learned from my readings.
I know that sometimes
you’re wondering why some people have more friends than you. Why? Maybe you
will answer, because of what or how he or she looks. No, the way they look does
not have anything to do with this, but for some aspect it does. But one thing
is sure: you can be like them if you will try to follow these easy and very
simple suggestions.
1. BE FRIENDLY. A friendly person
is much more attractive to others. Some consider themselves shy, so they will
respond more to a friendly person than to a snobbish one. Besides, her
friendliness will lessen person’s fear of rejection.
2. AN EYE CONTACT is a
non-verbal way of telling someone you wish to communicate with him. According
to a psychologist, when an individual looks at the person eye’s it gives a
silent communication and speaks of what you’re telling about. It is also a way
of attracting people so that you can start a very good, friendly relationship.
3. BE OPEN. It will show
someone interests, let him feel your affection toward him and who knows, this
might start it all. After all, the better you know someone, the closer you feel
towards him.
4. LIKE PEOPLE AND THEY
WILL LIKE YOU TOO. If you accept them will be more attracted than if you are
critical of them. Don’t be judge mental about themselves. Stay humble and try
to know the person better.
5. BE PATIENT. Always
remember that “patience is a virtue”. Be patient enough to get know a person.
Don’t bother if some of his qualities may not the same as yours. Enough time
spending together may result to a better friendship.
7. BE HAPPY. People are
attracted to others who appear to be happy. They are good and nice to be with.
So, stay positive, never lose hope after all, being happy is a symbol of being
a good friend.
8. Have a SENSE OF
HUMOR. Dealing what is enjoyable in life
will help you the person comfortable to you. This will win their interest to
you and make them happy to get to know you while having your sense of humor as
a captivating weapon to gain more friends.
Since, you have some ideas
on how to gain more of friends. Don’t forget to be true to yourself. It may
help you a lot in handling different types of people. Be of friends too…
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